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Location: Long Valley, New Jersey, United States

Born and raised in Northern New Jersey and licensed to practice Chiropractic since 1968 (48 years) in Florida and New Jersey, Go to www.drbarbier.com, www.barbierchiropracticoffice.com, www.twitter.com/DrBarbier. Experienced: as an advocate in family law for over 12 years being involved with about 8,000 people by phone, in writing or personally and also as a member of the State of New Jersey Commission on Child Support from 1984-1986; with land surveying for 10 years; with the limosine business for 21 years; and with the promotions,conventions and conference planning business for over 40 year; and as a producer in the theater in the later part of the 1970's. At the present time in the process of writing books :(1) about the legal system;(2) about the fathers' rights movement; (3) about the limousine business; (4) my insights; (5) Chiropractic (6)survival comple . Litigated with lawyers and Pro Se. Over the past 40 years litigated Pro Se in the State and Federal Courts many times on numerous issues. The only place not argued Pro Se is the United States Supreme Court.

Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Hang in There (Negative) -- Follow Through (Positive)

It is amazing how when I talk to some people that I consider friends of mine or people that are close to me and discuss some of the situations I have been in, and may presently be involved in, the comment that I receive most of the time is "Hang in There".

To me the expression "Hang in there" is stagnant and negative. It shows the attitude of no growth or prosperity and demonstrates lethargy.

The problem with most people is that when they start something they do not finish. When a baseball player gets up to hit the ball if he does not FOLLOW THROUGH when he swings at the ball the chances are he will not hit the ball properly. If a golfer does not FOLLOW THROUGH in his swing when he tries to hit the ball he will not get that which he desires. If a football player does not FOLLOW THROUGH in peforming his duties on the field he will not acomplish his goal and also stands a chance of being injured.

I know where I am going and I know what I must do and I find the comment "Hang in There"
to be negative and deplorable I prefer the comment "FOLLOW THROUGH" or "DO IT"