Location: Long Valley, New Jersey, United States

Born and raised in Northern New Jersey and licensed to practice Chiropractic since 1968 (48 years) in Florida and New Jersey, Go to,, Experienced: as an advocate in family law for over 12 years being involved with about 8,000 people by phone, in writing or personally and also as a member of the State of New Jersey Commission on Child Support from 1984-1986; with land surveying for 10 years; with the limosine business for 21 years; and with the promotions,conventions and conference planning business for over 40 year; and as a producer in the theater in the later part of the 1970's. At the present time in the process of writing books :(1) about the legal system;(2) about the fathers' rights movement; (3) about the limousine business; (4) my insights; (5) Chiropractic (6)survival comple . Litigated with lawyers and Pro Se. Over the past 40 years litigated Pro Se in the State and Federal Courts many times on numerous issues. The only place not argued Pro Se is the United States Supreme Court.

Tuesday, June 07, 2011


A very good friend of mine whom I had dinner with many nights past away about six weeks ago. It was about that time one evening while having dinner a gentleman was standing behind me and talking to me and a few of the other people that were friends of the deceased and whom had dinner with him and knew him very well. It just so happens that the gentleman standing behind me was the son of the deceased. He was from another state and never really spent much time with his Dad, from what we understood. He sat down with me and a few other people and wanted to know about his Dad. After about two hours he commented that we were like family to his father and he learned many facets of his fathers life especially his persistant smile and positive attitude.

While I was talking to him and listening to his questions I felt an eary feeling and said to myself; "Is this what my sons are going to have to do". Unlike the deceased who had a long lasting marriage but his wife past away a few years ago, my first marriage was short lived but has had a lasting effect in the fact that I haven't seen my sons from my first marriage in almost thirty years.

This simple conversation with the son of a good and gentle friend has helped to give me the insights as to the MORAL and LEGAL perspectives in resolving my delemma.